From the article: 3 Traps Mompreneurs Should Avoid Falling Into
Many women start businesses so that they can work from home and spend more time with their families. But as the demands of the business grow it is easy to feel pulled between work and family. Do you have tips for other women on how you balance running a business with the needs and demands your family has, too? Submit Your Balance Tips
Plan, Keep Cool
- I work from home...and am a freelance writer and also actively involved in expanding it with lots of bulk orders. I manage a team online and am constantly in touch through phone. I do most of the postings, major editing work when kids are at school. when they are home i make sure i am there to listen to their school news and stuff. i prepare dinner before hand so that my family has food if not me on the table..lol....i have a wonderful husband and MIL who support me always, again I work for some more time when my kids go to bed. I would say planning is the key for a successful business whether from home or office. Your kids will understand your priorities and will give u time when u really need. I agree with many points stated in this article and I can relate it to my life.
- —Guest Kanakadurga
Enjoy your life
- How effectively you communicate with your colleagues, spouse, and kids. Make them understand the pressure and prioritize the tasks, and allocate the time wisely. Then, there is no more work life balance.
- —Guest Narayana Murthy Nerella
Balancing Work and Family Life
- Prioritize. Always listen to your children and make them feel wanted and be their sounding board. As they grow older make them slowly responsible for their own lives. Allow them to learn from their mistakes as you learn from your mistakes. It really helps to have an understanding husband. Take a few hours off in the week to indulge yourself, maybe meet up with old classmates, or go to a spa, or engage yourself in your favorite sport or hobby to rejuvenate yourself.
- —Guest Mamatha
Advice on balancing work and family
- I agree with this idea, that it .is important because family is the first priority. Your family must happy every day but business can be produce money for your family. The key of balancing is communication.
- —Guest Hirodona
Involve the Kids
- Forget "balance" in the traditional sense. As adults, kids will need to be flexible. Stick to a schedule as much as possible, but when dinner is late, don't just serve it late, explain to your kids why you need to work and ask them to pitch in by washing veggies or even heating up soup. They will adapt better to schedule changes when you involve them!
- —Guest Not-A-9-5-Mom
No Balance
- I do not think there is such a thing as balancing both. One will always come in second place. You just have to decide in the moment what your priorities are.
- —Guest Anonymous
Think Carefully
- Having a business is a lot like having a baby. Conception is work (but fun!), growing a business and giving birth are only the beginning. As soon as you launch the business it needs a lot of time and attention or it will get into trouble! I think it is almost impossible to start a business while trying to start a family. Someone will suffer - usually the poor overworked mom who cannot give everything to everyone all the time!
- —Guest WorkingGal5
I Agree...
- I agree with Kathy Clark's comment. You have to know your life priorities - not just the ones in business! God, family, work...
- —iwaumtb
Be Professional
- Always be professional. Speak clearly, and conduct yourself as a pro. You are the expert, that is why they use you. In all your dealings, you set the tone, no matter how others act or treat you. Insist on being treated well and treat others that way. To often, when we work from home, it is not seen as a "real" business. Being in the arts, I am dealing with a double whammy here, to be seen as a real, professional person both as a home business and as a business in the arts.
- —StarrpointHost01
Keep Priorities in Order
- I started a business from home and learned this quote from Mary Kay Ash, founder of Mary Kay... "God(Faith) first, family second and career third." It helps to keep life in perspective.
- —Guest Kathy Clark
One Day Per Month
- I schedule a one day a month where I do nothing but stuff with my two children. We might back something or have a picnic. It is usually simple stuff that is not exhausting (because I am already tired) like long day trips and all-day shoppathons. They seem to appreciate that they have my attention and participation rather than just my peripheral attention.
- —Guest Aimee
Rule of thumb
- I am operating my business from home since 2002. I work with one rule of thumb - "Operate as if you are reporting for work at another location." I start my day at 8: 30 am and end at 5:00 pm. Those hours are devoted to the business.
- —Guest Esther
Load management
- There's a picture in my office with these words:"I resign as general manager of the universe." I now look at what are the tasks that ONLY I can do and what can be given away to my children or spouse. We chart out a week with everyone assigned duties. It means giving up the idea that everything has to be done MY way. I've also given away toxic clients. Know how much time and energy some clients take. In the long run, focusing your skill on finding and keeping good clients is more effective. Lastly, know what renews your energy. Ten minutes in the sunshine with only the sound wind chimes refocuses me.
- —Guest Eileen McDargh
Mom Skill 101 - Give Yourself a Time Out
- My kids get time outs to regroup when they are out of control. When I am overwhelmed and feeling out of control I give myself a timeout by taking a 10 minute break. Usually it is just a trip to the backyard to stretch, breath, and say, "calm down, you'll get through this!" But getting away from a problem is often the only way to get back in control of it!
- —Guest MissesVirginia
