Who was the relationship with (boss, employee, etc.)?
A coworker in sales.
Talk About The Relationship and How it Made You Feel
At first it was fun. Flirting, glances, sexy emails. It was exciting to think a handsome sales rep would be interested in me (I was recently divorced and feeling unattractive.) But after a few weeks of secret "dating" I learned why he wanted things kept quiet. Not because we worked together but because he was also seeing a secretary.
Lessons Learned
- If you are looking for a real relationship chose someone who wants to be seen with you!
- File a complaint if someone keeps asking you out and refuses to take no. I was vulnerable and now know that man used that to get what he wanted.
